Help me with my girl problems please

what do i do?

  • Dump her

    Votes: 25 61.0%
  • Nothing, everything is normal

    Votes: 3 7.3%
  • Try to work it out

    Votes: 10 24.4%
  • Other (got a bright idea?)

    Votes: 3 7.3%

  • Total voters
    41
Hey, easy on the CAPS LOCK ;)

But you do have a point. But it just goes with the fact that she's meeting new different people and she's changing. The guy is probably changing too, but he doesn't realize it as much as he notices her changes.

It's time for both to move on. If they ever have a chance to be together for good in the future, it will be after they both have a long break on their own and meet up after college.
 
EL Gee said:
yOU GUYS DON'T SEE THE OBVIOUS! sHE HAS PROBABLY BEEN AROUND SOMEONE OR SOMEONE HANGING AROUND HER AT SCHOOL AND SHE KINDA LIKES THINGS ABOUT HIM OR HER (IT IS 2003). SHE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT WANTS TO SEE YOU HAVE MORE OF THOSE TRAITS FROM THIS OTHER INDIVISUAL AT SCHOOL. IT'S HUMAN NATURE PEOPLE, SHE HAS HAD A CHANCE TO INTERACT WITH PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD. IT HAS HAPPENED TO ALL OF US. GO TO DIFFERENT TOWNS AND START DIGGING HOW PEOPLE ACT OR TALK OR THEY MUSIC CHOICES. YOU STILL HAVE THE CHOICE GIVEUP OR GROW WITH HER!

You think she's diving for oyster mullets?
 
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Re: Re: Help me with my girl problems please

1st MP3 in NH said:
YOu think she's oyster mullet diving?
(lol)
If she is, there's no way she'll find whatever she's looking for with this guy. Unless he has no problem with radical cosmetic surgery. Anything for the relationship, right? (thumb)
 
Let it go. IMO both of you are too young to be this serious. Both of you need to meet and be with different people, and then in the future you two find that you are back with each other than it was meant to be.
 
I disagree, a 19 or 20 can easily be that serious. Its only in this new age of scattered ass that the idea of being to young has popped up and this need to basicly explore other people, aka get randomly laid.

I have been with my girlfriend since we were freshmen in HS. We never broke up or any of the BS. We now live together and everything is rather good actualy. I am 22 now.
 
Yeah, but they are both in two different schools. College just has that breaking up effect on HS relationships.
 
cbcbd said:
Yeah, but they are both in two different schools. College just has that breaking up effect on HS relationships.

Try again, my girlfriend was at Ohio state for a year and I was in NH. Distnace doesn't matter its maturity, loyalty, and trust.
 
1st MP3 in NH said:
Try again, my girlfriend was at Ohio state for a year and I was in NH. Distnace doesn't matter its maturity, loyalty, and trust.
Ok then, I agree with that. I don't think most people are mature enough when they go off into college. That's why many people still change a lot during college, and that screws up relationships.

I've seen many shy girls from my HS turn into little partying sluts when in college.
It's a time where you can go wild, and since many people are repressed during HS, be it by school, parents, or something else, they go crazy in college. My ex HS gf was never mature and still isn't after college-I guess I grew up in college and saw that I was expecting for her to grow but she just never did.
I'm glad I jumped out of that deamon hellride :rolleyes:
 
"Find a chick that is into cars, likes to suck dick, and wont ask twice about getting any in return."

Sound advice Craig. lol. Good luck in findin some woman like this. If you do, you'll inherit her baggage as well. IMHO.
:eek: :eek: :eek:
 
I wonder if a gal out there exists with those qualifications all wrapped up in one person.. :D
 
zmepro said:
Ok, here's the deal, I don't know what the hell to do about my relationship w/ my gf and i don't know where to turn so im just gonna write about it here and mabye someone will have some advice or comments.

I'm 19 and so is my gf and we have been going out for about 1 1/2 years and change. we met in high school and then she went off to school were we had a long distance relationship for one school year.

now that she is back (and leaving soon) things are wierd, she is happy one minute, pissed at me the next, one minute she will be all over me, then next she doesn't let me touch her. (no, it isn't PMS)

she keeps telling me i need to be more romantic and always tells me what is wrong about me/her/us

she wants to be with me, she has planned her next like 10 years around us, but i don't know, when she pulls this s***, i get sick of it, and it has been happening alot recently. one day everything is fine, next everything is ****** up for some reason or another, she almost seems to find things to **** up to make me feel like s***

i mean, i still love her, but im gettin tired of this s***

what do i do? (see attacted poll)


You're too young to be worrying about shizzy like that. Go out and have fun. Trust me on this :D

If you're being yourself and she doesn't see you as being romantic enough then Her--->(nuts) <--- You

YOU deserve better bro
 
JPBlackMP5 said:
Craig's description? if so, I'd say it's possible, but darn near impossible. IMHO.

of the 3 qualifications, I know I only can say I possess 2.. ;)
 
likee Cars and not asking twice in wanting anything in return?:D if the third option - whoever's gf this is - hold on to her!! lol.


Lisakay said:
of the 3 qualifications, I know I only can say I possess 2.. ;)
 
so you think you know the 2 huh.. who said I like cars?? lol.. j/k
 
*evil grins*
Gotta make you forum guys wonder about me.. ;)
and btw- I love cars, just don't know much about 'em YET.
 
Wonderment abounds. lol. sorry about the bump of da thread zempro.

Lisakay said:
*evil grins*
Gotta make you forum guys wonder about me.. ;)
and btw- I love cars, just don't know much about 'em YET.
 
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