how come all of the girls i talk to say they don't want to do weights at the gym because they'll build muscles and look like a guy, yet they want nice muscletone. how come girls don't realize how much work it really takes to build significant muscle size? i personally like a girl with some muscles, not big enough to kick my ass, but one that looks like she participates in some physical activity and would be cool to go skiing with or play some sports with, not is so skinny it looks like she'll break if she tries to do anything, let alone play sports. does anybody agree with me?