gf left me ='(

[Vulcanon]

well, the best 15 months of my life are over, my girlfriend left me over irrepairable problems....I don't know if you guys care but a lot of you I consider good friends and...well, I don't know, I'm devastated, this all came out of left field...I don't know what I'm feeling right now...

 

[Captain KRM P5]

best wishes to you man, better things will come along...even if it doesn't seem so now

 

[Matthew]

hit me up on aim we can talk im lonely too rihgt now.

 

[Captain KRM P5]

hit me up on aim we can talk im lonely too rihgt now.

i'd start a chatroom but my girlfriend is here and yelling at me to get the **** off the computer as usual

 

[Matthew]

lol sounds like my wife

 

[Black Majik MSP]

It happens. I can't tell you exactly how to deal with it right now because everyone has their own way. You'll probably just want to spend a few days of personal reflection. I don't know the details, but it helps to talk to them & find out what happened & how both people feel if you can. Once all that is over with, the one thing I can definately suggest is to just do whatever makes you happy. Take your car to the track, hang out with your friends, do stuff that you used to do & maybe couldn't while you were in the relationship. The best way to get over it in the long run is to be positive.

 

[Mercure]

BEEN THERE. You will be OK though. As much as it sucks, it's small stuff in the end.

 

[MotegiMazdA]

Vulcanon: I'm sorry to hear that. I know how much it hurts and for a while you arent going to be sure of how your feeling or what to do..the pain will subside eventually and things will begin to look bright again, it just takes time and patience. Don't go overboard and become wreckless because you are upset. I have been there myself and well trust me it wasn't pretty at all. You always have this forum that you can confide in, some people might not care but I know there are those out there who do. We're here for you, whenever you need to get something off of your chest or when you feel like lifes getting a little to tough, come here well try and help you see the positive side to things.

Lifes full of challanges and maybe this quote will help you:
"Our real blessings often appear to us in the shapes of pains, losses and dissapointments. But have patience and in time you soon shall see them in their proper figures"

It'll hurt for a little while and you might feel lost, but dont cry because its over smile because it happend. There is a whole world out there waiting for you Vulcanon. It will all work out, takes time but it will. You'll see

 

[Black Majik MSP]

i'd start a chatroom but my girlfriend is here and yelling at me to get the **** off the computer as usual

I don't think I could manage one right now because I spend all of my time at school or at home on the forum. Even when I'm at school, I'll surf the forum sometimes. My mom is the one who yells at me about spending so much time online. (thumb)

 

[Captain KRM P5]

got the GF to go play some video games for a while - yeah, i'm heartless any one up for a mazda chat? log onto AIM and invite your self to the chat room; mazda chat or IM me (captainkrm)

 

[Vulcanon]

I appreciate it guys, I really do

well...guess its time to change my avatar ='(

 

[Phoenix5]

As the saying goes"there are a lot of fish in the sea",so don't sweat it man!!In the words of Usher.."ya gotta let it burn".

You'll find another girl someday!(thumb)

 

[Vulcanon]

I hope so...well, not really....I really just want her to come back =(

 

[MotegiMazdA]

Im sure she misses you too Vulcanon. Unless shes hearltess you cant spend time with someone like that and then up and leave and not feel anything for it. I dont know your situation, but it will get better with time. Not the most comforting thing to hear I know but it will turn around for ya.

 

[JOS3]

i'd start a chatroom but my girlfriend is here and yelling at me to get the **** off the computer as usual

sounds like my wife sometimes

 

[Gbourdon]

Awww man. That sucks. I'm really sorry to hear about this. I recently went through a breakup and it still kills me sometimes. Its been about 5 months and I keep hoping things will be fine. Things are getting better but it still hurts. Time heals all I just wish time would go faster.

 

[mcstark]

Hey Vulc...keep your chin up. Go for a drive, put on *your* favorite tunes -- nothing that reminds you of her -- and let it blast! Just be safe....

And, a sage word of advice: as you said there were irrepairable differences, so there's room to grow there. Whether it was your fault, her fault, or both (it's not my place to ask or to know), there's room there for you to improve yourself. This is one of life's little lessons...don't miss it. Because what you learn now will help you when the next girl comes along.

Trust me...my wife and I are very happy together, but I'm not perfect (and neither is she) so as we "gracefully grow old together" we learn more about ourselves and each other. There are still things about myself that I need to improve and learn to live with -- and I'm 32! You're only done learning when you stop living.

So think about what happened, and WHY, and learn from it. In that way you can take something positive from this.

 

[MotegiMazdA]

^^ VERY good advice

 

[Replica]

Love is a sickness of co-dependency. Consider yourself almost cured.

 

[SpicyMchaggis]

i'm sorry to hear it man..at least your part nepoc..me, servoeyes (dan) and cdbcd (doug) are all in the same boat..it'll be alright bud.