Well K-type probes are good for over 1300 degrees Celsius (~2400F) which is around double the temps you'll see at max on an aluminum engine since thats around the melting point. I would demand that the manufacturer of the probe supply the replacements if they were failing at such low temps
I agree that convenience comes into play when deciding where to install but I would never consider installing a probe post turbine as opposed to pre turbine. I want to know, as close as possible, what the actual combustion temps are, not 200-300 degrees cooler due to turbine energy losses.
Well that would be ideal wouldn't it? To monitor all cylinders the way they do on aircraft engines. But yes, you can also monitor at the exhaust collector but you're reading average temps. For racing applications, you want to tune on the aggressive side so you'll need to know how hot the hottest cylinder really is so you don't do any damage.
I think the most valuable info is the absolute temp anyways, not relative temps. EGTs are mainly to tell you if you're in the "safe" operating zone for your engine. That doesn't change as long as your block/internals are the same.
But regardless of where you put the probe, it is still useful info as long as you're aware of the limitations of where it is located and what the numbers are telling you and what they're NOT telling you.