dissapointment in this community...

Alejo_NIN said:
i don't really have the time to research anyone, i have never said you don't help anyone....if you do or don't...is really none of my business...

i don't feel bullied....
is the stuff i see around that i'm talking about....
not just because of my friend, which in fact has not much to do with this....yes, maybe after that i posted this thread...but this is something that has been going on for a while...
i don't feel like duscussing this anymore with you, is just a waste of time...
have a good life and good luck
god bless you and everyone in your family
i have no enemies so far...and i don't need one and specially, not from canada...

so, like a good christian, i'm just gonna step off and request for this discussion to be terminated...

anyone may delete their posts from this thread...

Great ! BTW Happy holiday season to you and all your family.

P.S. I am not trying to be your enemy either...
 
Alejo_NIN said:
i don't really have the time to research anyone, i have never said you don't help anyone....if you do or don't...is really none of my business...

i don't feel bullied....
is the stuff i see around that i'm talking about....
not just because of my friend, which in fact has not much to do with this....yes, maybe after that i posted this thread...but this is something that has been going on for a while...
i don't feel like duscussing this anymore with you, is just a waste of time...
have a good life and good luck
god bless you and everyone in your family
i have no enemies so far...and i don't need one and specially, not from canada...

so, like a good christian, i'm just gonna step off and request for this discussion to be terminated...

anyone may delete their posts from this thread...

See, this is the whole problem. People bring up complaints. We respond to the complaint. When it is found out that in order to help the situation, the one who lodged the complaint actually has to do some work (ie take action by reporting any flames they see to a moderator), they say 'forget about it' and ask for the thread to be deleted.

No offense meant, but if you're not willing to help us help you, you have absolutely no right to be complaining in the first place.
 
Alejo_NIN said:
In other words....just chill and loose the attitude, coz it is really bad...

Maybe offer your friend the same advice. His posts may not be the full reason behind this thread but looking at the timing it's pretty obvious they are what pushed you to post this.

Alejo, you said that if people only used the search function this forum would become nothing more than a database. On the same note, if people cannot take constructive criticism AT ALL, this forum would have no discussing and thus become a forum of two post threads (question/answer). If a debate can't take place on an internet forum we have a problem.

This forum has the least flames of all the ones I browse (though I do only browse a few).
 
i never said anything about not doing work?

but if we're not gonna agree on soemthing you just want me to pull a BUSH and declare a war?> no son, it doens't work like that...
the statements have been done...we just wait and hope it had made an impression

i don't really know how you deal with problems, but screaming and crying about something won't fix it..
i did my part, i brought it up...i had arguments...i heard arguments...and lets just see what we've learned from this...sinc eyou seem to have learn nothing
 
Alejo_NIN said:
i don't really have the time to research anyone, i have never said you don't help anyone....if you do or don't...is really none of my business...

i don't feel bullied....
is the stuff i see around that i'm talking about....
not just because of my friend, which in fact has not much to do with this....yes, maybe after that i posted this thread...but this is something that has been going on for a while...
i don't feel like duscussing this anymore with you, is just a waste of time...
have a good life and good luck
god bless you and everyone in your family
i have no enemies so far...and i don't need one and specially, not from canada...

so, like a good christian, i'm just gonna step off and request for this discussion to be terminated...

anyone may delete their posts from this thread...


"like a good christian"
What the *uck is that supposed to mean?


I have read,and reread your first post,and I am not to clear on what you suggest.
you seem to just be ranting on because you think Mods can't have super powers to stop inapropriate behavior/actions,and that people aren't able to all agree on the same things.
 
believe me, i've had my share of thoughts with this guy....he needs to learn to control himself...

i already spoke to him and decided it was best to step off from the forum and from the ROTM competition as everyone started suspecting he was cheating and if he were to win it would just make a bigger problem....

constructive critisism is one thing, and bahsing is another one




03MSP said:
Maybe offer your friend the same advice. His posts may not be the full reason behind this thread but looking at the timing it's pretty obvious they are what pushed you to post this.

Alejo, you said that if people only used the search function this forum would become nothing more than a database. On the same note, if people cannot take constructive criticism AT ALL, this forum would have no discussing and thus become a forum of two post threads (question/answer). If a debate can't take place on an internet forum we have a problem.

This forum has the least flames of all the ones I browse (though I do only browse a few).
 
is there really a need to explain what "like a good christian" means?

i suggest people just bringing it down justa notch on the attitude, that's all..

and moderators have a lilttle more control over fights and ****-yous, and stuff of the like on this fourms...

is that too much to ask?


wicked said:
"like a good christian"
What the *uck is that supposed to mean?


I have read,and reread your first post,and I am not to clear on what you suggest.
you seem to just be ranting on because you think Mods can't have super powers to stop inapropriate behavior/actions,and that people aren't able to all agree on the same things.
 
Alejo_NIN said:
i never said anything about not doing work?

but if we're not gonna agree on soemthing you just want me to pull a BUSH and declare a war?> no son, it doens't work like that...
the statements have been done...we just wait and hope it had made an impression

i don't really know how you deal with problems, but screaming and crying about something won't fix it..
i did my part, i brought it up...i had arguments...i heard arguments...and lets just see what we've learned from this...sinc eyou seem to have learn nothing

You think the mods and admins are oblivious to the fact that flamewars occur? We 'extinguish' several a day.

I hope you have learned something from this -- namely the fact that if you see something you don't like, all you have to do is let us know. Someone WILL look at it, and if it is in violation of our rules and policies, it will be dealt with. Plain and simple. You're making a huge mountain out of a molehill.
 
jersey_emt said:
You think the mods and admins are oblivious to the fact that flamewars occur? We 'extinguish' several a day.

I hope you have learned something from this -- namely the fact that if you see something you don't like, all you have to do is let us know. Someone WILL look at it, and if it is in violation of our rules and policies, it will be dealt with. Plain and simple. You're making a huge mountain out of a molehill.
exactly....
 
Alejo_NIN said:
is there really a need to explain what "like a good christian" means?

i suggest people just bringing it down justa notch on the attitude, that's all..

and moderators have a lilttle more control over fights and ****-yous, and stuff of the like on this fourms...

is that too much to ask?

We have complete control over fights and ****-yous....but AGAIN....if we know about it. This is where YOU (the members, not just you in particular) come in.
 
Alejo_NIN said:
is there really a need to explain what "like a good christian" means?

i suggest people just bringing it down justa notch on the attitude, that's all..

and moderators have a lilttle more control over fights and ****-yous, and stuff of the like on this fourms...

is that too much to ask?

That is a very reasonable request. What Jersey asked was that, as a member of this forums, you can report the violations so that moderators can act upon it.

In case you were unaware, when you push the button, report post, ALL the moderators get an email. Now it would be perfect if all the members would report problems, but we can only control what we do, not what others do...
 
Alejo_NIN said:
exactly....

All your post was is a complaint that flamewars exist. Something that we all know to be true. Point me to them, and I'll take care of them! Of course, all the ones I come across when reading & browsing the forums are taken care of on the spot.
 
i'm guessing it would be the icon, with no text next to it, that has a ! in the middle? had i known of such feature, i would had definately used it many times before
 
Alejo_NIN said:
i'm guessing it would be the icon, with no text next to it, that has a ! in the middle? had i known of such feature, i would had definately used it many times before

You got it!

It brings you to a form that also lets you fill in the reason why you are reporting it. Hit submit, and an email is sent to all the moderators of that forum. I also receive all of those emails regardless of what section it came from.
 
i guess then, we all can just step off this thread and be

we have discussed it, we have found an answer....no need for more arguments...

IF AT ANY TIME I HAD OFFENDED ANYONE, I APOLOGIZE.
i meant no harm by bringing up this subject...it just hurts seeing such a nice ocmmunity ebing screwed up by some...

i am really sorry if at all i said something to offend anyone....
 
oh, and by the way....

i do not watch girly movies...unless they are girly on girly kind of flicks...
 
Alejo_NIN said:
i guess then, we all can just step off this thread and be

we have discussed it, we have found an answer....no need for more arguments...

IF AT ANY TIME I HAD OFFENDED ANYONE, I APOLOGIZE.
i meant no harm by bringing up this subject...it just hurts seeing such a nice ocmmunity ebing screwed up by some...

i am really sorry if at all i said something to offend anyone....


Believe me when I say that I feel the same as you do. Been here over 3 years and I believe I have grown/helped grow this forum. Sorry If I feel a little protective about it !!
 
Alejo_NIN said:
oh, and by the way....

i do not watch girly movies...unless they are girly on girly kind of flicks...

We only have one TV here so sometimes i'm stuck watching them also !
 
no, not at all....

maybe this forums don't belong to us...

it has helped some make money
others fix problems
and most learn about stuff that otherwise they would never know

i don't want this going down the toilet...people tend to get tired of stuff like this
newbies get scared of asking basic questions being afraid of the "bullies" laughing at them for asking...."does a t3/t4 turbo would give me 500HP?" and such quetsions that for us, who had been around cars long enough to know what knock and pinging is, seem like stupid questions...
 
Alejo_NIN said:
ahh
you people don't know how to argue
this thread is boring

i need more "**** you's" and "go to hell"'s

This is taken from from you-know-what thread.

Alejo_NIN said:
and moderators have a lilttle more control over fights and ****-yous, and stuff of the like on this fourms...

This is taken from this thread.

Now it's quite obvious you were being somewhat sarcastic in the other thread but this is still pretty conflicting :p
 

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