hey, he is 16, and all the financial stuff and all the power is in his dad's hands.
the dealership doesnt give a damn about the kid of the man who has the $$$$
Parents are there to give their kids the best life they can. His dad probably worked very hard to be rich, and just because he is the son of that man doesnt make him spoiled, its just how it is.
BTW, if you cant tell, my parents got me my car, i'm 19. they are paying for my college tuition, and all my expenses. Thats what they are there for, love and support. Support includes the moneys.
Dont let these guys get you down for not working for the car, your work involves showing your dad just how much you appreciate him and what he does for you.