Okay, your running WAAAAY to rich in fact when you had to go through your second set of plugs that was covered in black, you should have been worried, plugs dont go bad that quick unless your running way to lean or way to rich, in your case the second. You most likely have a problem with your MAF. Your MAF tells your car how much air is coming into the engine, so the reason you cant accel. past 3.5 is because the MAF is ****** and its telling the ecu all sorts of weird s*** (another reason why your engine is being flooded with unburnt gas). Bottom line: You need a new MAF.