Anyone been through a divorce before?

I was the one with the pic of me and my scottie. Why should you have seen this coming?

Oh I had posted our pics in the off topic thread.

In my honest opinion you arw way to good looking for him. Just my opinion...dont kill the messenger.
 
well I have never been divorced but I did see my mom go though somewhat of what your feeling. And to be honest... once you get to a certain point nothing cant stop a divorce or re light that flame that was once there. I can tell ya this... once its over and done with and you move on. Much much much better things will happen and you wont be stressed out or mad or worried or any of those kind of emotions anymore. Hope you the best in everything.
 
My first marriage lasted 18 months. She had an affair. Been married comin' up on 11 years to my second..its blissful.
 
In my honest opinion you arw way to good looking for him. Just my opinion...dont kill the messenger.

All kidding aside, didn't she post a picture of her and her dog?

As far as looks go... while it's rare that it occurs the other way around, the amount of good looking women with just average (or less than) lookin guys is extremely high. a) women aren't as superficial (at least as far as looks go) as us guys) b) women tend to like money... some of the richest dudes around are also some of the... uhh.... let's just say they could use a makeover or something
 
I did post a pic.

It is not about looks to me. I was 15 when we started dating. I look nothing like I did back then. I haven't grown any as far as height. LOL But looks have changed alot. For the better.
 
My first marriage lasted 18 months. She had an affair. Been married comin' up on 11 years to my second..its blissful.


Blissful?! Are there drugs involved?
Congrats.

Now that it's been brought up, I want to see the pics!

I was going to say something similar as Chico said about the looks of couples, it isn't always on the same level! My wife is much better looking than me. I think I caught her when her hormones were running the show! LOL.
 
LOL
Um yeah we don't need to put pics up....it's all good.
I am sure you can find me on the couple pic thread or whatever it is.
 
I could care less about money. If i have a man that loves me and shows me, that is all i need. Material things mean nothing to me.
 
And most of us make our own money and don't need a man to take care of us. :p

That's a fact. My wife makes quite a bit more money than me, and will continue to expand that gap much further as time goes on. She'd do well to ditch me and trade up! One of these days she'll get her business off the ground and that will complete my transformation into her lil' b****. lmao. I kid, but I'm kinda serious.

For about a year and half I tried the stay-at-home dad thing but it nearly killed me and our marriage. So I went back to work and we went back to juggling time and nannies.

Yeah speed, I don't really need to see pics, just being nosy.
 
Well, naturally I wasn't referring to any women on this board! lol I was merely pointing out one of the reasons you're more likely to find a beautiful woman married to an avg dude (than the other way around.) While women are obviously making great strides and catching up... the fact remains that there are a lot more golddiggin women out there then men. (unless you count the actual men who are literally digging for gold.)
 
LOL

Well they are easy to find on here, so I am not concerned.
And trust me I am not all they may make it out to seem. LOL
 
I could care less about money. If i have a man that loves me and shows me, that is all i need. Material things mean nothing to me.

Your day will come. true love is out there..I know because my wife and I have it. Sounds to me like you two just outgrew each other. Getting married young has it's drawbacks..I think that is the main reason my first marriage failed. Neither of us where ready for the RESPONSIBILTY attached to the commitment of marraige. My ex-wife however made the cardinal mistake of going outside the marriage. I stayed single for many years before getting married again...good decision on my part, I did alot of growing up.
My wife now is an angel in my book...and she lets me know all the time that I am loved equally.

Like my father said before he passed.."Lucky Bastard, you are" (lol2)
 
You are right. I feel we just shouldn't have put so much pressure on ourselves at a young age. Tried to experience life and other people. I was so insecure though that as soon as someone started paying attention to me I thought no one else would want me. Weird i know.
I am not even close to perfect, but being told I am is always a bonus. :)
 
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