Go with the FMIC from Corksport. There is a group buy on this right now and you can get the full kit for $699. There is a list in the Lounge area so you can sign up. Normal price is $799 so its a great deal. There is much debate about SMIC vs FMIC. Corksport says go with FMIC, core is perfect size for stock boost.
As for your first question. A Forge BOV... I have one. I like it a lot so far. It is a dual stage valve so you will get no idle issues and the car will not stall. I haven't stalled once. Any dual stage BOV will work, it is the single piston valves (greddy, HKS) that will stall your car out. I put a SRI on this last weekend and my BOV got way louder. Kinda like! Up to you dude. I say rock the FMIC.