Yeah I know its really hard to follow without diagrams. I'll try to scan some in at work tomorrow.
So rather than try to make some exact resistor I just bought a .1 to 1k potentiometer at rapeyou shack, I mean radio shack. I put it in series with a 470 ohm and set it to 1016 ohm exactly.
I put the bridge in as per the Miata wiring diagram (same as swirl), hooked the wiring harness up to the AEM and measured 1.47 V with the ignition on, exactly what I measured directly from the MAF with only the stock PCM hooked up. Perfect.
However, I open up the gauges and see the AEM is reading 1.32 V, not 1.47 V. So the AEM has a little bit of load itself or is simply calibrated differently than my multimeter. I saw the same ~10% discrepency when I logged the MAF signal on the analog input last night.
I decide to see if 1.32 V according to the AEM is the same as 1.47 V to the PCM, and it's definitely not. The car starts but immediately dies, in hindsight I should have just measured the MAFO+ signal. Instead, with just the ignition on, I adjusted the potentiometer until the "Maf in" read 1.47 V in the AEM software. I then start the car, and it idles and then drives nearly normal. If I was at a red light long enough the RPMs would drop to 500 and the car would almost stall before revving back up, but overall it seemed ok. I didn't peg it since I don't have the wideband hooked up and don't completely trust this resistor setup, but I decided this is at least a good starting point to tune and started putting the LC1 in.
I got the cables in through the gromet (by the way a utility knife works way better than a drill), but was too tired to start soldering again in the footwell.
If you want to intercept the MAF signal the pot is definitely the way to go. I am not even sure what resistance it's set at now, but what you need to do is measure the voltage of your MAF when it is hooked up only to the PCM. Then, hook it up to the AEM and adjust your resistance to ground until the AEM outputs the same voltage. Do this roughly in the same time period as that voltage will change with temperature and barometric pressure. Also the AEM doesn't output exaclty what it says it does, probably because it's not expecting that 1016 ohm resistance in the PCM and the resulting load.
For reference, I just measured voltage directly at the MAF, 1.56V, while the AEM said Maf in and out was 1.49 V, yet I measured 1.43V on the output.
This should get you to the same point as me, whether or not you understand my voltage divider and Honda vs Mazda theory. As for the other wires, I did put a 1k ohm on the O2 sensor wire. But I did not disconnect any other connections. I am intercepting all four cam and crank signals as per the AEM instructions.
The unfortunate thing about this, not counting the 4 day headache, is since we'll all have slightly different resistance values, we won't be able to share maps. If we can get all our MAFO+ signals to match our stock MAF readings, then we should be be pretty close, but it's not exactly a straightforward procedure. In fact, I would recommend anyone not familiar with a potentiometer, just tapping the MAF, and you'll be good up until you max out the PCM.