A Tough Decision: Cousins Bachelor Party Vs.s GF's Homecoming

Where Should I Go That Night

  • Bachelor Party

    Votes: 34 82.9%
  • Homecoming

    Votes: 6 14.6%
  • Dont Go To Either

    Votes: 1 2.4%

  • Total voters
    41
family comes first.. there is always a dance... hopefully your cousin only ever has 1 bachelor party..
 
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Don't sh!t where you eat man... go with the girlfriend....

Either that, or try and get her to tell you to go to the bachelor party, and make her think its her idea... ;)
 
Don't sh!t where you eat man... go with the girlfriend....

Either that, or try and get her to tell you to go to the bachelor party, and make her think its her idea... ;)

yeah im trying to work some reverse pshcycology on her to get her to say just go, so well see what happens, if i hadnt promised her a while back i prolly woulda said no
 
i voted homecoming.. a bachelors party can't be much fun when you are in high school and can't get into any strip clubs... you'll just be holding the rest of the guys back from having fun..

(if however you are 21 and your girl's in high school.. there's a bigger problem here)
 
I'd say both, if that's an option. Most bachelor's parties are late night deals, right? Why not go to the homecoming and then head out with the guys afterwards? Or are they doing a non-traditional bachelor party like Sean was talking about (bbq & paintball)?
 
i voted homecoming.. a bachelors party can't be much fun when you are in high school and can't get into any strip clubs... you'll just be holding the rest of the guys back from having fun..

(if however you are 21 and your girl's in high school.. there's a bigger problem here)

Word.

Chances are that your cousin wont be upset if you dont go, there are going to be a lot of other dudes there than just yourself. The other guys will make sure he has a good time. Theres nobody else to fill in for you as a date for your girlfriend. However, I bet if you blow her homecoming off to go look at some trashy broads titties then she gets a new boyfriend pretty quick.

Strippers are a complete waste of money in my opinion.

On another note, after being in a wedding over the weekend and a few more weddings this summer I will not put other people through the misery of having to come to my own wedding. Bachelor party blah blah blah.

My fiance and I have already decided that its going to be a quickie wedding.
 
Logistics.

Go to the homecoming game and then split to the bachelor party. It isn't like you have to be on time at the party anyway.

Otherwise bachelor party as it is family and you are in the wedding. If she can't understand that you all have bigger problems then homecoming.

My cousin had his bachelor party this past Friday. It supposedly started at 7 pm, they had the dual hotel room since that morning playing halo 3 and drinking tequila. I got there at 9 just in time to be hoisted up to the secong floor window as their drunk asses locked themselves out. The stripper was ugly and my cousins friends acted like they had never seen a naked girl before. Good times.
 
As a groomsman you are obligated to take part in the bachelor party, its the mans last night out, you don't bail on that. Talk to her and explain it, she should understand that.
 
If she doesn't understand, drop her like a bad habit. If she is willing to push the issue about your family, you are in for bigger issues down the road. I also like the idea of going to the homecoming and splitting early for the BP too...
 
i have the perfect compromise. have your gf attend the bachelor party as the entertainment. that way you get to spend time with her, you get to go to the party with your cousin, and she even gets to make a little extra money so she can go buy a new coach bag. it's really a win-win
 
i have the perfect compromise. have your gf attend the bachelor party as the entertainment. that way you get to spend time with her, you get to go to the party with your cousin, and she even gets to make a little extra money so she can go buy a new coach bag. it's really a win-win

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i have the perfect compromise. have your gf attend the bachelor party as the entertainment. that way you get to spend time with her, you get to go to the party with your cousin, and she even gets to make a little extra money so she can go buy a new coach bag. it's really a win-win

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its non traditional, I think were gokarting and doing something else. Anyways I told her how i felt like she wasnt understanding how important this was to me and how I felt like she was being selfish not even willing to work with me on the whole situation and then she started her crying crap and told me she understood how i felt and to go, so now i have a crying girlfriend and guilt that goes along with it. but at least i get to go
 
its non traditional, I think were gokarting and doing something else. Anyways I told her how i felt like she wasnt understanding how important this was to me and how I felt like she was being selfish not even willing to work with me on the whole situation and then she started her crying crap and told me she understood how i felt and to go, so now i have a crying girlfriend and guilt that goes along with it. but at least i get to go

Hmmm...well, I'm not one to recommend gifties to overcome the guilt, but maybe buy her a little surprise (a book she's been wanting, flowers, etc.) and give her an IOU on a special night out.
 
don't give in to the guilt. once she sees that she can get free things out of you for making you feel guilty she'll use it to manipulate you. never show weakness!
 
Damn dude you've got three strikes against you if you go the bach party....

1 - You said you'll would go already.
2 - It's her last and only Homecoming (who cares really)
3 - The reason your not going is because your going to go see other womens titties (yea you say it's family and what not, but when it comes to bach, everyone benefits!!!) The family part, just helps your angle.

W/that said, go to the bach party it's a great experience and just like everyone else said, she's in highschool, he is your FAMILY.......enjoy those(boobs)
 
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