A Tough Decision: Cousins Bachelor Party Vs.s GF's Homecoming

[RacerXGirl]

don't give in to the guilt. once she sees that she can get free things out of you for making you feel guilty she'll use it to manipulate you. never show weakness!

Whatever. Giving her an IOU for a special night out is not giving in. It's showing her that he knows homecoming was something she was looking forward to and that he appreciates her (albeit tearful) understanding that the bachelor party is important.

Sometimes there's a choice between being "right" and being "happy."

 

[-pixy-]

Whatever. Giving her an IOU for a special night out is not giving in. It's showing her that he knows homecoming was something she was looking forward to and that he appreciates her (albeit tearful) understanding that the bachelor party is important.

Sometimes there's a choice between being "right" and being "happy."

(mswerd) a little something to smooth things over never hurts.

 

[evilmonkeyMSP]

Luckily i dont think anyone is retarded enough to listen to jareds bad advice lol

Whatever. Giving her an IOU for a special night out is not giving in. It's showing her that he knows homecoming was something she was looking forward to and that he appreciates her (albeit tearful) understanding that the bachelor party is important.

Sometimes there's a choice between being "right" and being "happy."

 

[jred321]

i've given nothing but stellar advice in this thread. you'd be a fool not to listen to me

 

[evilmonkeyMSP]

a single fool...

 

[-pixy-]

a single fool...

...with sore nuts.

 

[RacerXGirl]

...with sore nuts.

I love you Pixy...you always have the most succinct wisdom to share.

 

[carter1551]

Whatever. Giving her an IOU for a special night out is not giving in. It's showing her that he knows homecoming was something she was looking forward to and that he appreciates her (albeit tearful) understanding that the bachelor party is important.

Sometimes there's a choice between being "right" and being "happy."

it seems a woman's advice is the best advice Ive read. I think im going this route.

 

[RacerXGirl]

it seems a woman's advice is the best advice Ive read. I think im going this route.

smart man (wink)

 

[-pixy-]

smart man (wink)

(mswerd)

you should start an 'Ask JA' thread, so all the guys can get advice without leaving the comfort of the forum.

 

[Smooth1]

You caved and you let two GIRLS talk ya into it.
That's it! Your off the He Man Woman Haters Club! (little rascals....get it)

Isn't there a MAN LAW on this?

 

[-pixy-]

You caved and you let two GIRLS talk ya into it.
That's it! Your off the He Man Woman Haters Club! (little rascals....get it)

Isn't there a MAN LAW on this?

lol

He IS going to the bachelors party and the exchange is he has to get a small gift for the girlfriend. Sounds good to me.

He is happy, cousin is happy, GF will be happy, OP will still get some. WIN, Win, win.

 

[RacerXGirl]

You caved and you let two GIRLS talk ya into it.
That's it! Your off the He Man Woman Haters Club! (little rascals....get it)

Isn't there a MAN LAW on this?

ahem, two women, not "girls"...who have very happy, wonderful, satisfying relationships with their sweethearts...just the women you want advice from.

 

[Diehonda]

Isn't there a MAN LAW on this?

Besides bro's before hoes there is a rule that......


The ladies need not repeat or be tarred and feathered.(dark)

If you cave to her she will know what buttons to push, so tell her you will come over afterwards or the next day. Run it through her really well and call it a day. IOU paid for.


Ladies, you ever wonder why the sex is better after a guys night out????? It is our part of paying for the porch pass.



If you want to be a sucker you can tell her that it was OK, but you have more fun with her. She will gush and you can take the cop out.

 

[Diehonda]

ahem, two women, not "girls"...who have very happy, wonderful, satisfying relationships with their sweethearts...just the women you want advice from.

I just puked in my mouth a little.

 

[Smooth1]

We men need to stand our ground!
NEVER SURRENDER

Now if we get cut off in the process by the misses...time for a new strategy. Until then MAN LAW!

 

[katsmp3]

its non traditional, I think were gokarting and doing something else. Anyways I told her how i felt like she wasnt understanding how important this was to me and how I felt like she was being selfish not even willing to work with me on the whole situation and then she started her crying crap and told me she understood how i felt and to go, so now i have a crying girlfriend and guilt that goes along with it. but at least i get to go

that's super retarded. gokarting on your last night as a bachelor... how old are ALL parties involved

 

[daonly1around]

that's super retarded. gokarting on your last night as a bachelor... how old are ALL parties involved

yea, should go motorboating instead(idhitit) (godown)

 

[RacerXGirl]

that's super retarded. gokarting on your last night as a bachelor... how old are ALL parties involved

Enh, depends on the people involved what they do - I know some folks whose religious leanings had them choose a non-traditional bachelor's party. The strip joint/getting stupid drunk wasn't a desireable option for them.

 

[RacerXGirl]

I just puked in my mouth a little.

Go scratch.