We have a 17 Civic EX-T and my wife loves it. A lot of amenities, quiet, good gas mileage and it would probably have the edge on my older CX-5. But it is still an econo turbo with a CVT.
If the R looked like the Civic Coupe or si I would definitely consider one. I don't like the huge fake vents on the rear bumper area, but I could live with it. The giant wing that probably has little true function for most people is just not for me.
Older guy wearing skinny jeans is about like older guy (me) driving a Civic Type R. Maybe if I drove one I would change my mind
and also go get me some skinny jeans.