Need advice..G/F Broke up with me and I want to go out like a bang

[instylz]

My g/f just broke up with me after a 3 and a half year run. I knew it was coming due to us having problems that never fixed themselves and the same issues holding us back. I love her and still have strong emotional feelings towards her but in the same regard I am very bitter and I want to make a statement. She's Indian and for the past 3years we've been going out semi in secret as her parents don't really know me and don't want to know about me. We made several sex tapes and I think it would be quite the scene if her parents were to get a hold of them....I'm just really pissed that we've gone out for this long and her parents don't even know me. And I'm so bitter right now I'm just trying to find a way to close the door on this bulls*** the hardest I possibly can without her winning! Suggestions and or comments needed! Thanks

 

[bazooka joe]

let it go and move on with your life!!

 

[instylz]

yea I know and I feel like I should do that but I also want to make a statement before going...I know we won't get back together and I don't want to. this sucks

 

[Ryoga28]

I don't think it's a good idea. Just forget about her and devote your time to your new mazdaspeed miata.

 

[bazooka joe]

revenge is waaaaayyyyyy over rated!! you gotta move on at some point why not start right now?

 

[Witchdoktor]

let it go and move on with your life!!

(werd)

 

[Mr. Win]

yea im gonna say drop it buddy, who cares... you were whipped and she had you doing everything she wanted to keep things secret from her parents which is prob why she liked you so much and to give her parents those tapes would prob just please her bc in most of those family styles the child just wants to anger the parent... Its sad but are you gonna do, life doesnt care about your pitty partys.

There is the other side that what if her parents disown her bc of them? is that what you would want? If you "loved" this girl youll accept the fact that things didnt work out.

 

[sabrelli]

mate, i know what youre going through..my ex was indian too...and like you it was all fun and games....the constant lying to her parents, the sneaking around.

Like everyone said, let it be....you had a good run..you've got some good memories...on tape as well!!(hump)

And you shouldnt be pissed that her parents didnt meet you.....What were you expecting, smiles and hugs all round?

As for her winning?shes not going to be a winner! im assuming her parents are going to arrange her marriage to some stranger???

Sure it hurts right now bro....but as hard as it may be... ya just gotta move on......

 

[THEGOLDPRO]

wow this is like a real life bend it like beckum, does she play soccer? lol just drop it.

 

[Mental Addiction]

yea I know and I feel like I should do that but I also want to make a statement before going...I know we won't get back together and I don't want to. this sucks

The maturest statement is to move on.There's no need to cause drama because things didn't workout.

 

[bazooka joe]

The maturest statement is to move on.There's no need to cause drama because things didn't workout.

i agree with beau, what is really to be gained?? you'll feel better about the situation??

 

[bazooka joe]

(werd)

?(scratch)

 

[Witchdoktor]

?(scratch)

(werd) = agree


instylz - let it go bro, but you're more the welcomed to post the vids here (evil)

 

[srtchick]

mabye she broke up with u cuz u traded in ur speed for a miata (dunno)

J/K ..


Move on man

 

[Sain't]

Indian eh? Send her father the tapes and he'll probably dis-own her.

 

[MP3skaterNC]

just hit it again and throw a donkey punch!

 

[Ryoga28]

mabye she broke up with u cuz u traded in ur speed for a miata (dunno)

J/K ..


Move on man

My fiance almost broke up with me for the same reason last year (traded in GTI for Msp). Girls want someone dependable so that they can feel secure. It's sad but my fiance pretty much controls me.

 

[THEGOLDPRO]

just hit it again and throw a donkey punch!

lol wow that made me laugh. i agree a donky punch is in order.

 

[bazooka joe]

(werd) = agree


instylz - let it go bro, but you're more the welcomed to post the vids here (evil)

oh (hear ya)

 

[ELEmental59437]

Nah dude, dont send the tapes. It's much more serious in an Indian family than it is to an American family. It could get REAL messy, and I would never wish that kinda torture on anyone. Imagine your parents wanting to kill you.

It sounds really bad, but it comes down to either letting the daughter possibly give the community something to look down on the family for, or the family getting rid of the daughter - they are going to choose the second option. The reputation of the family in their community is prob one of the biggest things they have.