with new job you wont have to carry cAses of beer and youve got a foot in the door to one of the hardest industries to get into, i think youd be a fool not to take it. i say leave the girl if its meant to be then itll work oout im not telling you to give up butttt if she wants it to work it will if not theres pently of fish in the sea. if your a good dj you can do it anywhere you have no idea what the clubs are like and you may be able to do your own sampling as well.. honestly all that girls gonna do unless you marry her is close doors for you. dont be subject to love blindness... i have and ive regret it.
moving on and leaving behind something important...
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Coming from experiance, distance makes the heart grow fonder. What doesnt kill ya makes ya stronger. Need I go on??????
BUT in the same sense..........its a big sacrifice. My fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years. Last year, just after we got engaged he got work on the rigs, and was gone for months on end. He did it for the sake of our future. I agree'd to it and tuffened it out....... We decided to move to Edmonton to be closer to where he worked. I agree'd, left my family and friends and moved. Its what you do when you love someone, you support their decisions and respect them for it. He went from a 9-5 job, off every weekend to never being home, stayingin hotels, working through -50 weather and rain............all for the sake of our future.....
So now, I live here in a city of 900 000 BY MYSELF and moved from a town of not even 7 000... I dont know anyone, all I do is work, go to the gym and come home. I see him once a month for a week. That is a HUGE sacrifice. I wish we never would of did it. But if we didnt, we'd have no money and our dreams would go down the drain.........Its made us a million times stronger as individuals and as a couple.........
Life's not always easy, and sometimes you never know what the future holds and if your decisions were the right ones. But you gotta do what you gotta do. And the great part is, is when we see eachother, its like I was 15 all over again.
I hope it all works out for you and your girl..........sorry for the babble.
BUT in the same sense..........its a big sacrifice. My fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years. Last year, just after we got engaged he got work on the rigs, and was gone for months on end. He did it for the sake of our future. I agree'd to it and tuffened it out....... We decided to move to Edmonton to be closer to where he worked. I agree'd, left my family and friends and moved. Its what you do when you love someone, you support their decisions and respect them for it. He went from a 9-5 job, off every weekend to never being home, stayingin hotels, working through -50 weather and rain............all for the sake of our future.....
So now, I live here in a city of 900 000 BY MYSELF and moved from a town of not even 7 000... I dont know anyone, all I do is work, go to the gym and come home. I see him once a month for a week. That is a HUGE sacrifice. I wish we never would of did it. But if we didnt, we'd have no money and our dreams would go down the drain.........Its made us a million times stronger as individuals and as a couple.........
Life's not always easy, and sometimes you never know what the future holds and if your decisions were the right ones. But you gotta do what you gotta do. And the great part is, is when we see eachother, its like I was 15 all over again.
I hope it all works out for you and your girl..........sorry for the babble.
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Let the music make the decision for ya. 
Mine, after being through all that you are going through I must say that you have to make yourself happy. When the girls are gone, which they tend to leave sometimes, what do you have, when this job opportunity isn't there and the girl leaves, what then? If you move and have to leave her, will she still be there for you, and when the time is right, will she want to marry you? Is giving up a job more important to you then true love, to some it is, but I can bet you that she will back you 100%, even though she would hate it, If she loves you then she'll push you to do what you've always wanted to, and if it is real, she'll wait for you to make the decision about her. Take your time with this, there are two peoples lives involved her, don't make any hasty decisions. Congratulations on the job, and best of luck with whatever you decide. Part of life is making decisions, some aren't that easy, and some come with alot of pain and sacrifice.
i appreciate everyones help and insight.
at this exact point in time, and even at the point in time that i wrote this yesterday, i was and still am at about a 90% "i'm moving, i don't care" mindframe.
i know losses are a b****, but there's just some other random things thrown in to this, that i'll let out of the bag now, because they've all been dropped on me by said girl within the last 24hrs, that make me definitely not want to stick around.
01. girl might, and more than likely will, upon graduation, move to new york, las angeles, or toronto. so if i screw up this chance and stay, and she ends up moving, i'd be up s**** creek without a paddle...big time.
02. girl is being fairly selfish about all of this. that, in itself, is driving me insane. she doesn't care about the job, my future, or my happiness, she cares aboue me not leaving her. wack? no, more like wacky wack!
03. girl, as of yesterday, might be taking a graduate school design course in fashion design (her field of interest)...in ******* germany!! so she might leave me again once she's done! and she's mad about me moving to arizona?! oi vey!!
at this exact point in time, and even at the point in time that i wrote this yesterday, i was and still am at about a 90% "i'm moving, i don't care" mindframe.
i know losses are a b****, but there's just some other random things thrown in to this, that i'll let out of the bag now, because they've all been dropped on me by said girl within the last 24hrs, that make me definitely not want to stick around.
01. girl might, and more than likely will, upon graduation, move to new york, las angeles, or toronto. so if i screw up this chance and stay, and she ends up moving, i'd be up s**** creek without a paddle...big time.
02. girl is being fairly selfish about all of this. that, in itself, is driving me insane. she doesn't care about the job, my future, or my happiness, she cares aboue me not leaving her. wack? no, more like wacky wack!
03. girl, as of yesterday, might be taking a graduate school design course in fashion design (her field of interest)...in ******* germany!! so she might leave me again once she's done! and she's mad about me moving to arizona?! oi vey!!
well, that other 10% is just...well, its drinking alone and going through pictures and being a ******* pansy, thats what its doing.
its hard to say goodbye to so many people and things that you love...especially when one of them totally owns your heart at the moment.
its hard to say goodbye to so many people and things that you love...especially when one of them totally owns your heart at the moment.
Portland has this affect on people.
You can get a Fiance Visa. Or if you really love her, marry her. Establish a life in Tempe, then save and move to LA. There are plenty of clubs to DJ at in LA.
Britt
That is actually not bad! When I moved from CA to FL, a truck along was goingto run 3 grand! I ended up with their biggest trailer, and that was $1000 itself. I had to sell off a lot of my stuff, and the rest barely fit in the trailer. I looked at the most common "deal" sites. No coupons or anything. I remember looking for them years ago when I was moving.element.8 said:
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i agree- check commercial moving companies.
