my '09 will spin pretty darn good in first or second with everything on... if it gets out of control, i get the flashing light... i think it has a mind of it's own...
so my take on the traction on or off thing is really not that important... if i do the start then push the button, the car feels faster, yet looser in twisties..... and if i take off hard enough to spin the wheels, it still spins as before... and gives me the TCS flashing light when it gets to really blowing the tires off... if i do the push the button then start method, it does about the same thing, i just don't get the flashing light warning... i like this, as it doesn't bug me with the light/warning, etc.
on the roads i keep it all turned on... it feels safer in the twisties... on a track or auto-xing i would DEFINITELY want it off, as i can drive it to the limit a lot harder...
my car is all stock, with a k&n..... and it pulls like MAD and will break the potenzas loose at will in 2nd. just rolling in 2nd and nail it... gonna break em loose, every time... mine will sometimes get a bit of a scratch going into 3rd as well.
is my car weird, or does everyone's run this well???
one other thing.... i've learned to control the torque steer in it, finally. it really comes on strong when you give it a hard run.