Protege2K said:
So how do you tell them apart without the name blankets?
that was my first thought when we realized they had not one distinguishing characteristic between them after they were born.
So, we made little string bracelets with a really tiny "D" on one, and little "A" on the other. Otherwise, there's no telling them apart (no birth marks, no nothing--they cry the same, grunt the same, move the same; they even load their diapers at the same times. It's crazy).
We almost lost them both at 20 weeks due to a super rare condition called Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrom. It's where "communicating blood vessels" develop which take blood from one and give it to the other, so the one grows too fast too soon and the other looses what it needs. Think of your oil pump only returning half of your oil back to your engine and leaving the rest in your filter until it's blows off. Really bad x2.
Both would have died within a week had we not been flown on a US Air Ambulance (emergency flight with a hospital room on a leer Jet) to Tampa, FL for the surgury because it was so rare (mind you, I'm in Madison, WI). Only 3 places in the nation seem to be equiped to do it with any sort of positive outcome.
In any case, pretty crazy to think here they are now, healthy, and safe.
I got ~2 hours of sleep lastnight and my eyes feel like this ->(shocked). The good news is we've hired a live-in nanny from Germany who will live with us and help out for the a full year so it's won't be completely insane (just mostly).