You guys have a Lexus GS and Mazda CX-5 too? What are the odds, it's a rare combo of cars for families to have!
I guess it comes down to philosophical differences. While I'm definitely a technophile / gadget freak, I'm an old-school car guy first. That means when I'm driving, I'm driving. Period. I'm growing weary of the "feature creep" in new cars. Features that have nothing to do with driving. I won't even use my hands-free phone while underway. I pull over to make or receive the call. Studies have shown that even hands-free operation is just as dangerous as the one-handed yakfest most people seem to have going on behind the wheel. It's as dangerous as driving drunk. While I love the nav systems in both our cars, I appreciate that it locks out the UI over 15 MPH. The temptation to keep poking at it would be too great. As for texting while driving, words fail me. I guess I'm just too old too see the point of that. I my mind, I have a clear delineation between driving and non-driving activities. I take pride in my driving, I enjoy the simple act of sliding behind the wheel and engaging in the man/machine interface. I'm probably the last generation to have learned to drive with a manual transmission first. (A 1980 Datsun 210 wagon with a 5-speed. Back in the bad old days of poorly calibrated carburetors and rudimentary emission controls that led to the jerkiest takeoff this side of, well, a 1980 Datsun 210 wagon.)
As for the CX-5's audio issues, yeah, I agree waiting for the iPod to load every time only to always play the first track is annoying. But I look at the CX-5 as a sum of its parts, rather than focusing on its few weak areas. It's the most fuel efficient non-hybrid CUV out there. The price is reasonable. It's easily the most fun to drive (which is something you don't hear often about a 65" high vehicle) and now with the 2.5 engine it's reasonably zippy. Plenty of room for a small family. It even looks cool - cute but purposeful. I look at it and I feel good about putting my wife and daughter (due in January) inside it. I feel like this was a vehicle designed with heart. By people who really enjoy driving and like cars. They got all the big stuff right with the CX-5, almost right out of the gate, except for the 2.0 engine in 2013. But they fixed that, and quickly!
If there's one thing that would ding Mazda for, it would be the option package combinations. All I really wanted was Nav, USB port, HID Bi-Xenons (which are freakin' awesome, better then the HIDs in my Lexus), and the Smart City Brake Assist. But, as most manufacturers do, they combine the option packages with things I don't really want, like the Bose, the moonroof, and rain sensing wipers. But that's the car biz for you. They are a low volume manufacturer, especially compared to Honda/Toyota and I know the gravy is in the options.
Here's my final point. I don't think it's rational for people to switch brands over a fairly minor blemish like poor texting and iPod integration. Really, people are talking about going back to Ford and Nissan? Really? That strikes me as an overreaction. On balance, the CX-5 is so vastly superior to the comparable offerings from those companies, that it seems like you're throwing the baby out with the bathwater here. Don't punish Mazda for this one. We need more relatively small, nimble automakers like Mazda to keep the big boys on their toes. Competition is good for the marketplace, and in turn, good for us drivers.