Hitting on the help

yo dino .. i gotta jump in on this one .. i gotta say .. every situation is soo differant when it comes to meeting a chick like that .. but i can say i have worked for the wireless industry for 5 years now and especialy in sales most of the women flirt there ass off and do what ever it takes to get the sale because the commision is awesome .. i've seen some s*** that blew my mind when i started there. Married woman cuttin up with the guys she is selling to and lean over when laughing and put there hand on there legg or make sexual jokes about the fun with a camera phone ect .. so i wouldnt be surprised if that is what it is .. however its like i said .. everysituation is differant. I can say from my own personal expiriance . thats how i met my wife .. I was in the mall selling cell phones at a Us Cellular booth when she walked up and was actually looking for a sale guy at another booth but according to her .. the way i looked , dressed and spoke to her she said it was almost like a love at first site type of thing . and to me ..she was just a chick that was hotter then hell and dressed with such class and sexyness at the same time .. it was Halloween night and we sat down and started talking up a storm and i mentioned i was goign through i rough time and she seemed to just not want to smile so i asked her if she was ok . that it seemed as if something was bothering her .. and she finally said that she was really unhappy and she was going to be divorcing her husband .. so me being the ass hole player type i was .. i mentioned that if there was anything she needed , a friend , a shoulder, another persons P.O.V. I would be there any time .. also helped because I was going through the same thing .. and her parents are they typical southern Bible belt overbarring parents all involved in all her s*** .. so her decision was really being infulenced by her parents .. so me .. I cant fuckign stand that s*** ... and she took it ... we talked every few weeks and then went out for a movie .. i took her repelling ..and then WHAM .. Married , Beautiful daughter .. BMW Z3 roadster .. new 4 br house two car garage .. then the MP5 ... (became member here) .. then WHAM .. she did the same s*** to me LMAO .. she met this dude she worked with .. i mean total pretty boy with money (which she is loaded as it is so ) .. next thing ya know .. My dad dies . I go to burry him in NH .. she hooks up with pretty boy and next thing ya know .. im out on my ass and shes now married to him LMAO .. but anyways ... thing is .. keep it simple .. the #1 thing girls cant handel and dont like is rejection .. so if they think they can get you there not interested .. but you got to play the emotion card first ..so to speak so you get the change to talk to her .. but be sincere let her know that you hate to hear what she is going through and that youll be there for her if she would like .. and say it like this if you get the chance .. when you see her .. ask her how "things" are going .. and just be like well i hate it for you that sucks to here .. but hey "you've got my #" (puts it in her court) and say I want you to call me if you need anything or just need someone to talk to or to vent to . but just by saying that "youve got my number" to her imediatly she knows the Ice is broken & that the question of weather she should call you or not if she has been interested in calling you . is now layed out so she knows from you its kool to call .. most women wont call because they are scared, nervous or dont think you want her to call and feel silly so .. anyways .. thats my spin on this .. mp5raycer - out
 
@mp5raycer - OMG, your life has been crazy! I've thought about the "you've got my # bit", which I'll probably tell her next time I get to talk to her, but a lot of women are kind of retarded in the fact that they have a rule where "they don't call guys" until they've been talking for awhile.

I think it's silly, but it comes in handy BIG time if you're juggling. ;)
 
so?..... you hit it yet?


what you waiting on?

jump in, if she says no thanks oh well, and even if she slaps you it'll only hurt for a little bit... what's she going to do? turn off your cell phone service for insulting her with your lame attempt to ask her out to dinner or some s***? lol


GO FOR IT, no worries
 
RyanJayG said:
so?..... you hit it yet?


what you waiting on?

jump in, if she says no thanks oh well, and even if she slaps you it'll only hurt for a little bit... what's she going to do? turn off your cell phone service for insulting her with your lame attempt to ask her out to dinner or some s***? lol


GO FOR IT, no worries
I haven't been back there yet. I'm not exactly having dreams about this chick, so I'm not going to go out of my way to walk in there and talk to her. If I'm in the area I may stop in.
 
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