Not too sure about the hand on the shifter, but do not rest your foot on the clutch pedal, even a little. The hydraulics will engage during slight load from the clutch. you will wear out your clutch faster. As for the back and forth thing with the shifter, yup, that's how my father taught me to know the car was in neutral. And as for the e-brake button ~~ lol, i do that too, and it drives her crazy, and when I am driving around and I see a POS Civic cruising around, then I press it for my "mental nitrous" LMAO, it's just part of the fun I have when I'm driving it.