Big G/f Trouble Need Some Help Lol!

[Maz2001MP]

whoops

 

[girth]

You're trying too hard. Just let her do her thing and you do yours -- wait for her if you want or just move on.

 

[Maz2001MP]

btw this s*** is taking an emotional toll on me, panic attacks, etc. i care about this girl alot , i dunno what 2 do or what 2 think nemore...(shrug)

 

[Maz2001MP]

You're trying too hard. Just let her do her thing and you do yours -- wait for her if you want or just move on.

yeah true.. i dunno dude i wouldnt mind waiting but i want 2 make sure this is legitimate s***, she claims it is.. i jus dont wanna be wasting my time and effort

 

[girth]

yeah true.. i dunno dude i wouldnt mind waiting but i want 2 make sure this is legitimate s***, she claims it is.. i jus dont wanna be wasting my time and effort

I hear ya. The thing is, you are young yet so I don't think you have to worry about "wasting time". If you're happy when you're with her, it's not "wasted time", even if it doesn't work out in the long run. It's obvious you care about her from your posts and I'm ironically in a similar situation -- great girl, she's kind of "out there" and distant and I panic about how she feels quite often. What I'm doing is waiting for this girl of mine to come back to normal....that may be the wrong thing to do but she's important enough to me to give it a chance. And I'm a lot older than you so it might REALLY be a mistake for me...but I guess my personal advice is just give her some more time.

 

[Maz2001MP]

she is crazy

 

[Maz2001MP]

I hear ya. The thing is, you are young yet so I don't think you have to worry about "wasting time". If you're happy when you're with her, it's not "wasted time", even if it doesn't work out in the long run. It's obvious you care about her from your posts and I'm ironically in a similar situation -- great girl, she's kind of "out there" and distant and I panic about how she feels quite often. What I'm doing is waiting for this girl of mine to come back to normal....that may be the wrong thing to do but she's important enough to me to give it a chance. And I'm a lot older than you so it might REALLY be a mistake for me...but I guess my personal advice is just give her some more time.

yeah true

 

[mp5jeff]

dude, you are what, 20? don't chase em, replace em

 

[Maz2001MP]

im always thinking about the stupid what if's and s*** like that.. i cant help it lol... maybe i jus need a drink or another cig lol (smoke)

 

[mp5jeff]

i was joking btw, but in seriousness, this girl just sounds like problems IMO, not worth the hassle if she wants to break up with you every other week...after the FL ordeal she would be nothing but a door mat to me...just imo of course

 

[Maz2001MP]

yeah alot of my friends feel the same way lol... im 21.. i cant help the way i feel though which kinda sucks but i was really pissed about the FL situation, i totally got shitted on after that one ..

 

[Maz2001MP]

another problem is that she is one of my friends sister.. so it would be better if it was outta sight outta mind.. but staten island is 2 small for that neway lol.. everyone knows each other in some way shape or form..

 

[mp5jeff]

exactly man, just go out and find another chick, whenever you think you have met a "good" girl another one will come by the next day that is better, trust me ran into it a bunch of times and kick yourself for not being single, haha

 

[Leppy]

from experience... most girls worthy of keeping want someone there when they're going through emotional times... I say if she keeps pushing you away everytime something out of the normal comes along, drop her and find someone who wants you around all the time instead of only when the weather's nice.

OR if you really feel for this girl, just drop her (as she suggests) and see what else is out there... let her have 'her space' and see how things play out. You never know...

 

[mspdfreak]

Some chicks just like being abused. "Treat a ***** like a queen and a queen like a *****".

Screw it, go **** her best friend!

 

[krillin]

Move on. I'm sure you have more than enough s*** to worry about in your life. Do what's best for yourself.

 

[gato9lives]

Too much trouble!!! Not worth ithe stress. SHE basically said get lost in a nice way. go screw another girl and youll forget all about it. Youll look back ant think what the **** was I thinking!!!

 

[Maz2001MP]

dude i dont even know... it might be like that

 

[Dr.Sound]

seriously, too much headache.

me personally, i dont care how good the girl looks or acts, she's not worth my stress.
u're in a relationship to have fun together and enjoy eachother, NOT to stress.
relationships like that are bulls***.

 

[Shane-O]

Dude, where to begin, if you love her, keep in touch with her until she matures but I wouldn't try to make it a serious relationship until she does. I dated my wife for 6 years before we got married, things where up and down(college does that) you just need to think about what's best for you and I think it's about time you just had a good time with out her, you'll still think about her, alcohol is a great therapist for these times. Just be responsible about partying! Best of luck to you.