To me the biggest thing is to have good throttle control really. I would say that maximizing cornering grip is the better thing. Carrying more speed in the corner, but having to deal with having a little wheel spin is going to be better, than less spin with lower cornering speeds. Balanced chassis comes first.
I never really get any wheel spin when I was running with 195 RE-11's and they aren't the grippiest thing out there. If you are getting a lot of wheel spin, my thoughts are you are overdriving the front end to begin with. Might be a little harsh, but I bet it is true and I have seen that from a lot of FWD guys driving.
Here is a video of an autocross when I had stock bilstein PSS and our rear bar 195 RE-11's. Definitely not my best driving, but I never got wheel spin except for the uturn start in 1st.
Here is a video of me on track with a different and stiffer suspension setup still with the same tires. I only get minimal wheelspin in turn 6 (1:00, 2:43, and 4:26) That is mainly because the exit is over a crest so the car gets light.
Both of these were with a tune in the car which really helps with low and midrange torque as well.
I can get a bunch of wheel spin if I want, but I basically have to get the car to understeer then step on it, but that's because the front end is already sliding. Thus my overdriving comment.