I have read almost all of your 200 and some odd posts. I have come to this conclusion, please read before making a quick whitted comment.....
You are in enfactuated with someone. the only problem is you don't love that person for who they are and what they have to offer in a relationship. You want to try to shape and mold this certain individual to what your standards of what a perfect mate is. Well guess what... if you can't love someone for who they are and you need to try and change them.. That is not called true love. It's called being blind to the obvious.
You can't change and never will be able to change anyone.. and really you shouldn't need to change someone... You should learn to respect their habits, their beleifs and what they lookk like. Do not date someone in hopes of them becoming something else... you date and love the person just the way they are.
For this situation you can't accept what this person does and how they choose to live. Do not try and change it, learn to appreciate it.
Please do not take this as a pesonal flame but rather something to think about.
Jc
You are in enfactuated with someone. the only problem is you don't love that person for who they are and what they have to offer in a relationship. You want to try to shape and mold this certain individual to what your standards of what a perfect mate is. Well guess what... if you can't love someone for who they are and you need to try and change them.. That is not called true love. It's called being blind to the obvious.
You can't change and never will be able to change anyone.. and really you shouldn't need to change someone... You should learn to respect their habits, their beleifs and what they lookk like. Do not date someone in hopes of them becoming something else... you date and love the person just the way they are.
For this situation you can't accept what this person does and how they choose to live. Do not try and change it, learn to appreciate it.
Please do not take this as a pesonal flame but rather something to think about.
Jc
