Anyone know about cell phone search.....

[lrivera38]

Ok,

I know some of you may have done this before, or know about it. Where can I go to do a reverse cell phone search. I have the number but no name. And I don't want to pay like 80 bucks to find out. Just need a little advice on this.

 

[MP5Raycer]

here's som advice .. ............. call it .. lmao .. i m playin ... I've worked for the Corporate office of US Cellular for 6 years .. and now I work for the Company that ownes them .. TDS telecom ... (land line co) ... what info are you needing ?

 

[Velocifero]

but seriously just call the number

 

[MP5Raycer]

or give it to me . I am a tellecommunications specialist .. we here make random calls to the customers to assure there recent service has been satisfactory .. "due to many upgrades we have been doing to our system we just want to make sure your service is meeting your needs"

 

[lrivera38]

I can call, but I'm trying to keep it on the down low. Why you might ask, well to keep up on the contacts my girl makes on her phone. Think of it as an 6 month audit.

 

[MP5Raycer]

awwwww man .. i didnt know it was like that ... that sucks .bro .. all i can say is this .. if shes gonna cheat .. shes gonna cheat ..there isnt a thing in this world you can do about it .. and why would you want to .. why would you want to be with someone that you have to make not cheat on ya or you have to keep tabs on ... i know ive been there ..i think we all have but .. 9-times out of 10 .. your guilty of it too and she isnt the one that is doing anything wrong .. think about it

 

[jersey_emt]

I can call, but I'm trying to keep it on the down low. Why you might ask, well to keep up on the contacts my girl makes on her phone. Think of it as an 6 month audit.

Why not just ask her about it?

If you don't, or can't, trust her, then there's no point in going behind her back to 'track her activity'.

What if you're wrong, and she finds out what you did? Then she will never trust YOU.

And also, just calling a guy doesn't mean she's sleeping with him...

 

[Velocifero]

can i get her number?

 

[MP5Raycer]

can i get her number?

not needed newbie. we are not here to make fun of his situation

 

[Velocifero]

lighten up, not really that new here either, if you can't show humor for most situations than don't make them public. it was just a joke and no harm meant anyway, besides check my profile, I would never cheat on my wife even just over the phone talking.

 

[Velocifero]

besides, who is in the wrong here? is his gf a previous cheater or is he just keeping track of who she calls and talks to? that sounds shadey right there. even if she has cheated before, i dont think its right to track her contacts and if tis is only a six month relationship than i would be worried about how long it would last anyway. i have been there done that as well (not the tracking thing, thats just stupid) and wondered about my gf's loyalty, like jersey said, talk to her and solve your issues, so you lose a gf, there are more and if she's so right for you than you will drive yourself insane over her friends b/c of jealousy, better off w/o her even if you can't see that at first, then you meet the right one and you both will know it, happened to me and i never thought i would get married, mainly b/c I had trust issues, but being honest and finding the right one solves that. i have never been happier, and this guy sounds young so he probably isnt in any rush, there are lots of girls. Scott

 

[lrivera38]

Some of you made a good point. So here is mine, alot you have your certain ways doing handling a relationship. Some are good and some are not. But you still have your ways of handling it. I trust her, I love her. But for me, sometimes(not all the damn time) that I have to make sure she feels the same way. And I can almost guarantee the every man or woman has checked up on their loved ones. And if you haven't, you will eventually. I've been in my fair share of relationships where they would do something bad or I would do something bad. I have risked so much to be with her and now we are engaged. I working two jobs non stop to try to help pay for our wedding. We don't live together ( she lives with her sister.). So she has every capability to do whatever she wants as well as I do. We had our coverstaions about this before when I caught her calling her ex. She told me it wasn't anything, and I believed her. And she promised that she would never talk to him again and she hasn't. You see to me if you are in a relationship, you should always repsect the person you love. And that means never calling another guy or never calling another girl. Because if that starts to happen, then another thing happens and another. It's like a chain reaction. I don't go out to clubs by myself with my friends and she shouldn't either. It defeats the purpose of being in a relationship. See I was raised in a family where you would never see my Mom going out with her friends or my Dad going out with his friends. You would always see them together. Very old school but it's very effective since they are still married. And that's what I expect in my relationship.

 

[Velocifero]

Some of you made a good point. So here is mine, alot you have your certain ways doing handling a relationship. Some are good and some are not. But you still have your ways of handling it. I trust her, I love her. But for me, sometimes(not all the damn time) that I have to make sure she feels the same way. And I can almost guarantee the every man or woman has checked up on their loved ones. And if you haven't, you will eventually. I've been in my fair share of relationships where they would do something bad or I would do something bad. I have risked so much to be with her and now we are engaged. I working two jobs non stop to try to help pay for our wedding. We don't live together ( she lives with her sister.). So she has every capability to do whatever she wants as well as I do. We had our coverstaions about this before when I caught her calling her ex. She told me it wasn't anything, and I believed her. And she promised that she would never talk to him again and she hasn't. You see to me if you are in a relationship, you should always repsect the person you love. And that means never calling another guy or never calling another girl. Because if that starts to happen, then another thing happens and another. It's like a chain reaction. I don't go out to clubs by myself with my friends and she shouldn't either. It defeats the purpose of being in a relationship. See I was raised in a family where you would never see my Mom going out with her friends or my Dad going out with his friends. You would always see them together. Very old school but it's very effective since they are still married. And that's what I expect in my relationship.

thats the same with my parents, rare now-a-days, and I agree everybody has their way and mine is a lot like yours.