I despise auto locking doors and have disabled the feature. I do not want the doors locking or unlocking unless I take some kind of action. I also hate the annoying horn beeping when locking or unlocking and wish people would disable that feature on their own cars so I don't get startled walking across a parking lot. But of course the majority of drivers these days never read their manuals and are clueless regarding most of their cars features.
However I digress. I leave all doors locked in my car except the drivers side. When I get out I just thumb the button on the door panel to the locked position. To reenter I just press the button on the outside handle. To open the hatch I press the button on the hatch. No need to manually lock any doors once I close the hatch again. I don't bother locking my car when it is garaged.
The one thing that bugs me is that the button on the dash to open the hatch will not work unless all doors are unlocked. This means I have to hit the unlock all doors rocker switch and then press the open hatch button and then remember to lock all doors afterwards. It seems that the interior open hatch button should operate independently of the door lock status.
I have found that the more automatic features the car has, i.e. climate control, rain sensing wipers,headlights, mirrors that retract, you name it the more I read about people either having problems with them or not being happy with their functions. The solution for me is turn all that stuff off and be engaged with the car on a more active manner. Maybe it's because I have been driving since 1971 and i'm used to manual controls but it doesn't bother me to do things when and how I want instead of relying on some program logic that may or may not be applicable at the time.