what you are asking is not hard, it is just outside of what shops normally do. Dealer and repair shop personal come to work every day in order to return cars to the state they were in when new. It is what they do. It is how they think. You are asking them to hurt the car.
As a 6ft 6in guy who loves cars I decided a long time ago that I must modify cars to make them fit me. Sometimes I modify them with an eye to being able to restore them to original, other times I just modify them. My last car, a Audi Allroad, required removing the seat, removing the upholstery, cutting and grinding some of the seat pan away and welding in a new shaped plate. I did it, and was happy with the result. Later when the car was older I bought a used seat and put it in the basement until I sold the car.
If you like everything else about the car I would remove the console and figure out what to do. Wires can be tie wrapped rerouted, extended ETC. Things can be modified. A new console could be made from wood or plastic or a number of other materials. In a few years you could buy a used replacement to put in the car when you sell it.
If it were me, (And I like my 14 so well, it may be me in a few years.) I would remove the console and carefully set aside all the one knob control stuff ETC Tie wrap the pieces to something ETC. Then I would drive the car for a week. If I liked it a lot better I would ask my self. Can I live with out the center controls and put in a console out of a 13 - 15? Can I take a console out of a 13-15 and carefully cut and put the extra controls in it? Can I take out the console, CUT out the offending part, cover what is left with foam and leather like fabric and RTV? Drive, enjoy, and try not to look at it. Can I cut out what I don't like, and take what is left to a custom shop and have them make it nice again.
It is not a engine, or even a air bag, it is just the center console If you take it out and mess with it no one will be hurt.
If you don't want to do the work yourself there are two other routes. One is to find a local business that modifies vehicles for handicapped use. Unlike the dealer, they are accustomed to taking a perfectly good car and making it different. The second route is to attend a custom car show. Talk to the kids that lower them, chop the tops, install custom interiors ETC. At the show you can see there work and find one that will do it for money. Years ago I read about a movie company that wanted a car to break in half and the front half keep driving. No professional would do it. They found some kids showing off low riders, and hired them. It worked.
It's your car. If you like it, start cutting.
Check this out. What you want is NOTHING
https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=Custom+Auto+Consoles&FORM=IRBPRS
http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r92/ryanknowsall/console2.jpg
BTW years ago at a local track I saw a guy about 7 ft racing a Volvo sedan. I wanted to see how a person that size fit in the car well enough to race it. As I approached his car I saw a sign in the lower rt corner of the drivers window. It read "Next Window please." Sure enough. He had removed the front and rear seat, and repositioned the front seat almost where the rear should be. He also had a thick spacer moving the steering wheel back. The rest of the interior was stock including a stock passenger seat.
https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=vehicle+custom+console&FORM=AWIR
