Not the time or place to get into a debate over this issue.
Suffice it to say, the people you are talking to here on this forum might know more and surprise you as to what they did or are doing for a profession.
If you are truly a "sworn police officer" (as you seem to be implying) then you would clearly know that you are trained and taught from day one in the academy to 30+ years on the street to DEESCALATE a situation, not escalate it. I am not LE, nor did or do I imply it. De-escalation is also done through show of force, as well as how one handles the situation in other ways, as well, though. Cops who escalate situations are known as "hotheads" or "loose canons" and they actually create more problems for other officers, constantly get citizen complaints against them, create hazardous and deadly situations for other responding officers and give other officers and the department a bad name. Sadly, these officers are hard and difficult to weed out since their aggression is not truly shown until after their probationary period is over, hence the difficulty to remove them since they are then protected by the police union. Been on the job for nearly 6 years. Only had to get physical on a couple of occasions, and that was with someone who was demented and violent, and involved restraint only, no striking or anything that could have harmed them beyond them over exerting themselves. Part of this is that I don't look like someone you should push around, and I think that discouraged a few people over the years, too.
Violence is the gold standard for thugs, criminals, and social deviants. An officer responds to a situation with the use of force model. They are trained to deescalate a situation and only respond with force equal to the threat.
What is the last item on the wheel of force? Lethal force. The ultimate expression of violence. Violence is the last, and ultimate recourse. I'm glad we agree.
A 150 LB officer can do as good or better job on the street than a 250 LB muscle bound officer. It's all about how you treat, react and deal with the people you come into contact with. 90% of the job is mental and only 10% is actually physical.
100%, that. However, there is a reason I am who deals with violent psych cases and not the 110# female.
The point of all of this is if you are using this MAZDA FORUM to release some pent up aggression due to your job or life circumstances, so be it, but you are going about it all wrong. If you truly are this angry, see a psychiatrist or counselor. Most departments will allow you to go in strictly confidential without it affecting your job as long as you are not a threat to yourself or others.
I responded to the question "Are you a dick in real life?" My answer was "Yes, to some people, and here is how and why...". My job is not all fun and games, and it CAN be frustrating. I think that a lot is lost in translation online/in type, though, and me being someone who will speak their mind on things when most people refuse to call an ace an ace, or a spade a spade, exacerbates the issue. Me? I'm calm. But for most people to say what they are thinking, they have to be riled up, so it's interpreted that I MUST be riled...because I was real with someone. From time to time I have actually spoken to counselors and therapists. I think that it's a very valuable tool when making life decisions, as well as to calibrate your own rheostat. I spent a few months last year actually talking with one before I decided to move. I have found their incite very valuable, and sometimes they see things that you cannot, because you are too close to the situation. Every one I have spoken to though observed me to be level as a metronome and extremely realistic, so what can I say? BTDT, and I agree, they are great tools to help make important life decisions, or if you DO have an issue with something that you can't get a handle on. Especially relationships. I personally think that couples should go to a therapist once a month just to lend outside perspective. but I am sure others may disagree, too.
This CAR FORUM is not the place to do it. Go find a forum where it is more fitting for your type and situation.