I try to run my car as most as possible with 94 octane gaz. Here, I can get it at Petro-Canada gaz station. If I can't get to one Petro-Canada, I have to get some 91 or 92 octane gaz. But most of the time I run it with 94.
It's true that I don't have problem with my car. It is runing a bit rich but it's not a big deal. It's not rich to the point that you can see black smoke. It only got a small rich smell and my A/F if at 3/4 rich on WOT, so no big deal.
My only other problem is the CEL. Since I don't have cat (the 2 of them) anymore, the CEL is always on..... so I removed the light!
The big difference between Spoolin and my setup vs Begi setup is that we run extra injectors instead of a FMU setup. Maybe the FMU is a bit more difficult to tuned. When I went to Extreme Machine the first time, we discussed about the FMU and extra injectors setup and they recommend me to go for the extra injectors setup and this is what I did.
But don't think that I didn't have problems at first. I got almost the same problems that you got. On the first 2 weeks, I had air leak, prestone leak, oil leak, fuel leak and the problem with the ECU that was freaking out after 5000 RPM (the thing about the check valves). But we worked each problem as they arrived and that was it. After that, everything was fine!
I realy think that the FMU setup is a bit harder to tuned because of the fuel pressure but for the rest, it's the same kind of kit!
They only other big difference is the FM/IC. This maybe can do a difference about the pinging. Spoolin and I have big FM/IC and the Begi kit have a small one. So we are probably runing with a bit colder air......