the colder plugs are 'less agressive' so they will acutaly give you worse performace/power (but were talking like 1-3hp...so you cant even tell) but they will help the car run better and be less prone to flooding.
It will burn oil, the oil injection is based on RPM and load. So the more you push the car, the more oil it will use. If it doesnt use any oil, you will notice your motorblow up before you notice the oil level isnt droping. Dont worry about it, its using oil.
The Bose system is just the amp and speakers, the headunit is the same. The car comes stock with the single CD player head unit. You can upgrade to the 6 disk in dash, or the MP3CD player in dash, I belive the upgrade is about 300 bucks. Not to bad if you want to do it. The bose system isnt bad (I have the Touring model) but I found that adding a single 10" Infinity Baselink sub that the low end is much improved and it made the system sound quite a bit better.
I only use Shell and Chevron 93 octane, the are the only 'Top Tier Gas' retailers in the area. Honda, BMW and GM (as well as others) got together and decided that the 'detergents' and other adatives required by the government arent enough to keep the carbon buildup from happening in modern cars. They setup a new standard that only 'Top Tier Gas' retails follow. To be Top Tier they have to have all 3 grades of gas meet these new requirement set by the car makers. Independent lab tests have shown that Chevron and Shell are 2 cleanest burning gasolines on the market (that you can get at a pump and not via ordering drums).
http://www.toptiergas.com/ Anyway thats besides the point.
93 octane will allow the motor to run the maximum ammount of timing advance and the motor will have better response and performance cause of it. If you run lower grades of gas, you wont/cant hurt the motor, but the car will reduce the timing, cause of that throtle response and performance/power will be reduced.
If you are planing on 'mixing' 91 (you must be in CA or somewhere, as we have 93 down here in FL) why not just run 89 octane? Most gas companys only carry a high-octane blend (91/93) and a low-octane blend (87) the 'mid-grade' is a mix that the distributor makes so your getting some high and some low already mixed.
As far as race gas goes, you need to make sure of 1 thing : DO NOT RUN LEADED RACE GAS, that goes for all OBDII cars (cars made after '96, and any car with a catalytic converter or oxygen (o2) sensors). The lead addative will DESTROY, not damage but DESTROY o2 sensors and catalytic converters.
Going back to what I said about running lower octane gas vs higher octane. The car (and most modern cars) will look at the octane raiting of the gas, they will run as much timing advance, ect that they can SAFELY run on whatever octane you put in. Some cars can take advantage of the higher octane 93+ (such as the 104 you saw, or the C16 (117 octane) we carry here at the shop). In the RX8 i wouldnt waste the money, the car will advance the timing a bit, but we are talking about MABEY 5hp MAX, for the price of few tank fulls, you can buy an intake or exhaust or something that will PERMANITY make the power.
104Plus, that sounds like a 76 station? They also have Top Tier Gas (i belive, check the site). Mobil's 91/93 octane is pretty good, but cause their lower grades of gas dont meet the Top Tier Standards, they dont make it on the list.
If you Have any other questions, let me know.