Thanks! 4 stars is pretty good i guess for the frontal, but 3 out of 5 for side doesn't seem great... hmmm... i haven't checked out the 3's competitors, but the Jetta for example got 5 stars on frontal and 4 for side (although it had side airbags, so it's not apples to apples comparison with a 3 that doesn't have side airbags.
But overall, would you say the 3 is above average on safety? Yahoo autos gave a general rating of 4/4 to the 3, but 5/5 to the Jetta. I want to get it for my wife (and kids down the road), so i was thinking of safety too, since she's not as defensive a driver as i am.