caught cheating

[falkofire]

my girlfriend was over..along with her friend...my grilfriend was falling asleep, at which point she went to my room to sleep...I stayed up with her friend, and after getting a lil close while playing pool...we started to kiss and whatnot on the couch...then...my girlfriend walked in....she hasn't confronted me yet...she jst left without saying something...I didn't know she saw us...but she told her friend on the way home...anyone reccomend anything to do?

 

[tonkabui]

yeah, go in the corner, sit there for the rest of your life. you're on permanent time out.

 

[APEXistud]

Well, I sure hope your girlfriend's friend was at least a hottie. Furthermore, you're both dirty birdies for doing that. If you and your girl haven't been together for that long, then there's really nothing to worry about. You're young have fun while you still can. If she takes you back, she's a chump. If you really want to say with her, you'd better sack up and go buy some flowers, recite poetry, write an apology letter etc. Because you might need them all. Good luck and at least try not to do it when she's around next time.

 

[unwrittenLaw]

you should of asked her to join in.....

 

[LinuxRacr]

Damn man, I hope it was worth it. Kinda hard to get trust back after something like this.

 

[boostisgood]

Im with Unwrittenlaw. J/K DooD, Cheating is not worth it, apparently, you dont wanna be with this girl, as you decided to kiss her friend.

Take the weekend to figure out what you want, then go for the firend.

 

[derrick1623]

it was pretty bold for you to even attempt something like that, but... i'm sure that if you like the first girl, you'll do whatever it takes.

 

[unwrittenLaw]

You're young dude...just go with the flow, but when you get older and into more serious relationships..I wouldn't pull that s***. What goes around comes around..

 

[YP5 Toronto]

oh to be young again...falkofire how old are you?

It really all depends on what you REALLY want....if you want to get fix things with the GF, then you need to figure out why you did what you did (thanks for sharing the story BTW) and then EXPLAIN it to her....because she is forever going to wonder WHY you did that. Once you figure it out...then.....time to make it up to her big time!!!! You'll need to be 100% honest with her on this one.

On the bad side, even if she does forgive you....SHE WILL NEVER FORGET...that will most probably bite you in the ASS in the future (near or far).

If things don't work out....then lesson learned!

 

[seth]

I vote for the asking her to join you two.. that would work out well..

 

[fkmp5]

hey, if you're young you have nothing to worry about, right? (see attached picture)

 

[Dexter]

dude, abort mission, youre never going to live it down.

 

[SnowSerpent]

I think you should use the old excuse that it just happen and it won't happen again.

Seriously if your girl takes you back just watch your ass cause women like payback.

 

[CrAzY-P5]

my girlfriend is my car(yes)...and i dont think she'll ever leave me

now how cheesy is that???

 

[cbcbd]

On the bad side, even if she does forgive you....SHE WILL NEVER FORGET...that will most probably bite you in the ASS in the future (near or far).

True DAT!!

I've been hounded because of something I did in between takes of a relationship (I did not cheat- I broke up, had my fun, was persuaded to go back to ex - mistake=told ex what fun I had had).
Every moment it could've been brought up, it was. Even started flirting/messing around with this young punk when she wanted a 1 month "break". I said screw this and decided to forget about it for good - needless to say, she did a 180 and tried everything to get me back ("everything" was a lot of fun, though (naughty) )

So yeah, if you do want to stay with her just be ready for crap like this.

fkmp5! that's a crazy pic, hopefully she's not one of those psychos

 

[fkmp5]

fkmp5! that's a crazy pic, hopefully she's not one of those psychos

it's funny because someone had just forwarded me that in email, and then it seemed so fitting to drop it in on this thread

 

[sundevilMP5]

hehehe...it's either get back together with her and appologize to her for the remainder of your relationship or just go on with your life...i know show her this thread that will fix everything...

...you're just lucky she didn't kick you in the nuts *knocks on wood*

 

[vindication]

Your still pretty young so I say, way to live a young mans life. If you werent planning on marring her(which you really shouldn't since you're still young), then don't sweat it. But you should still feel bad because you hurt another persons feelings and f#cked up the trust you two had. But you live and learn.

 

[[Cruzer]]

Just to be sorta on falkofire's side,
What kind of friend does his girlfriend have. Are they best
friends?? If so how could she do that to her. It takes 2
to tango and its not totally his fault. Men are weak minded
when the other head is thinking. And women know this.
So I say its the GirlFriends friend at fault, Totally. Falkofire
was just an inosent person who got taken advantage of.

but seriously.. if you want to stay with your girl then you better
no how to beg and do what ever she wants. NO matter what. ( as long as its legal)
or just like what unwritten said.. your young move on or just
hook up with the girl you cheated on.. you already sampled
the goods.

Good Luck on what ever you decide.

RC

 

[tonkabui]

i don't understand how you guys can say that he's young and needs to live it up. if you want to live it up, don't get a girlfriend. don't start cheating on people when you are young cause it's gonna be a habit forming thing. don't get in another relationship until you are ready to commit to that person and only that person for the duration of your relationship. if you don't want to be with them anymore and want to be with her friend, break up with her first. don't be a sleeze ball. it's ******* stupid.