MAtt I know your situation, I lived it. All was great before we got married and as soon as she said I do at the church it changed to I don't for anything else. Seemed like a switch clicked off in her head. She was always clutchy and needy but now that we were together she got turned off. Long story short. We got divorced. Tried everything under the sun to get that spark going, counselling, romantic getaways, porn. Nothing worked. I know it seems easier to say than do, but if you tried everything and she refuses to participate in getting help then you have your answer. It will be hard, but you deserve to be happy and still have a many years ahead of you. I was married at 22 divorced at 25 and remarried again at 34. Life is sometimes better the second time around. Best of luck to you