Can't get laid.

I wish i could help you out ...my last ex was also ready to go all the time ...but till the end it slowed down big time ..... i tried new thing that worked and some did not ... good luck ... you might want to sit her down and talk about it ...come to some sort of aggreement ....i like chilly want it all te time ..but truthfully we rearly get exactly what we want ....
 
jcvmp5 said:
I wish i could help you out ...my last ex was also ready to go all the time ...but till the end it slowed down big time ..... i tried new thing that worked and some did not ... good luck ... you might want to sit her down and talk about it ...come to some sort of aggreement ....i like chilly want it all te time ..but truthfully we rearly get exactly what we want ....
yeah. honestly the only thing to do is talk about it. if she says she doesn't know the problem then find out why you can't have sex then. there has got to be a reason behind why she doesn't want to.
 
MAtt I know your situation, I lived it. All was great before we got married and as soon as she said I do at the church it changed to I don't for anything else. Seemed like a switch clicked off in her head. She was always clutchy and needy but now that we were together she got turned off. Long story short. We got divorced. Tried everything under the sun to get that spark going, counselling, romantic getaways, porn. Nothing worked. I know it seems easier to say than do, but if you tried everything and she refuses to participate in getting help then you have your answer. It will be hard, but you deserve to be happy and still have a many years ahead of you. I was married at 22 divorced at 25 and remarried again at 34. Life is sometimes better the second time around. Best of luck to you
 
jcvmp5 said:
so the conclusion is talk to her and see what is tha deal ...then make a deal
yeah. even better, sneak in a movie with a sex scene or something. unfaithful made me so hot, and it was kinda a sneaky one too. i wasn't expecting so many sex scenes. maybe she'll get hot from something like that.
 
bud, I feel your pain.... though not currently in that kind of situation, I have been there before... it sucks... but I think there is probably just somthing that is missing in her eyes... I believe if YOU went the extra mile to do the things that turns a girl on, without going staight for sex afterwords then it might pan out for you.

good luck buddy.
 
an other thing that might work is randomly one day tell her how good something she did made you feel ..... how sexy she is ... how turned on she make you feel ...flatter her ... she should give in ... girl like it when you remember the smallest thing that they do that make you feel good...
 

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