Can't get laid.
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Matt, I know for a fact that stress, and a history of hurting someone can cause the sex drive to plummit. That's what happened with me and asianhottie. All the s*** she put me through, made my dick soft, yet when I have a good conversation with a woman, I'm captain rockhard! There are quite a few mental sexual barriers. You have to find them. When I saw yall last, she wanted more attention from you from what she was complaining about. Just a thought.
man, i know exactly what you are going through. my husband never wanted sex either. no sex=no marriage in my case. i left him this past december. 
sounds like ya'll have a problem. it's almost why i don't want to get married again, unless i find someone who wants it as much as me, cause it seems to go downhill after marriage. i honestly don't know what to tell you.
sounds like ya'll have a problem. it's almost why i don't want to get married again, unless i find someone who wants it as much as me, cause it seems to go downhill after marriage. i honestly don't know what to tell you.GAspeedProtege
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It was mentioned earlier, but I think the key is in the approach. Usually I'll joke around kinda bluntly with her to get a feel for what she wants. By the time we're ready to settle down, she always flips onto one of the showtime pornos, (she loves the stuff!) and I'll start massaging her with lotion and oils. One thing leads to another and I get some. 
StarvingRussian
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Matthew is the top poster now. Congrats man!
honestly i don't care what the approach is, if i am with a person and they are interested they're gonna get some. but if you're a lazy dick then you ain't getting nothing. my ex would come home from work and get on the computer straight away and stay there till 2 in the morning and never get up except to pee. I'm not saying that it's matt's fault, it doesn't sound like it's his at all, but something's gotta be done. question? does she watch porn at all? cause even when i'm not in the mood at all and i see it, i'm ready to go.GAspeedProtege said:It was mentioned earlier, but I think the key is in the approach. Usually I'll joke around kinda bluntly with her to get a feel for what she wants. By the time we're ready to settle down, she always flips onto one of the showtime pornos, (she loves the stuff!) and I'll start massaging her with lotion and oils. One thing leads to another and I get some.
