broke up with my girlfriend

[tyusha]

Yes i broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. It happened last night and i've been supprisingly well then. But i knew it would hit me today. And it did. It hit me hard. I spent all day in bed sleeping and having nightmares. It sucks. Thank god that i am in college (senior week aka no classes just spending time with friends), and not around my parents. It's hard to feel anything right now, and being clinically depressed doesn't help matters.
Sorry for a sappy post , i just wanted to share.

 

[Dr.Sound]

it will get better.
time cures all.

 

[CitizenPro]

Be strong man.......i just lost my father a few weeks ago, so i feel some of your pain...........

 

[tyusha]

: (

 

[GHOSTWHISPER]

sucks man, hopefully you find something that will help you get through it.

 

[Pretzellogic]

I can remember when I lost my fiance. Nightmares/no sleep. Didn't eat much. It was pretty hellish.

It get's better. Much better. Just get back into the routine, man.

 

[tyusha]

Thanks guys....

 

[Paul]

damn dude that sucks. at least you got your friends to fall back on.
keep your head up

 

[mp5racing21]

One good thing that came out of my breakup with my gf is after all of the staying up, worrying, and crap I lost some weight. If I learned anything, its that from then on I have never gotten attached. Stay in there man.

 

[1sty]

I wish I had words of wisdom for you but I really don't
All I can figure with this though is that with where you are in life and with what you will be facing over the coming months, it might be a good thing to not have a serious emotional relationship to worry about. They aren't easy and usualy don't last long in a major time of transistion like this.

Kind of like the stereo, take the time to get everything else squared away, then get to the fun stuff. Cars, stereos, women, you get the idea.

 

[tyusha]

thanks guys, thanks 1sty....

 

[Familia323]

dont sweat it man.. I broke up with my G/F of 2 1/2 years about a month ago so I know what you're going through. Its rough but it all works out for the better.

 

[tyusha]

yeah.....

 

[tsunami]

been there twice (of that duration) dumper, and dumpee....both suck all i have to say is get back in some routine, and you are at senior week in college there has to be some cute freshman/sophomore out there to keep you occupied till semester is up...the ones that mommy and daddy haven't come to pick up yet are just lookin for some company.....

 

[yesiownaskyline]

good friends are in your life for a reason. rely on them, they wont mind and it will help you in a lot of ways.

I'm not trying to be a dick about this, and i do agree that respecting/mourning over part of your PAST is a good thing, but dwelling on it causes problems (speaking from experience). You may not be ready just yet, but give it some time, and refocus on yourself, not another object(i.e. dont **** some nasty girl just cuz you want company. This will leave you worse than where you started... unless youre hammered and cant remember, then it should be ok b/c you have an excuse)... you will soon realize that there is a WHOLE new world out there to be discovered without a girlfriend...

 

[tyusha]

yeah, i won't get together with anyone.... and i am not too big on the whole drinking thing, AKA i do not drink at all. So i won't be hammered....

 

[tyusha]

oh and i am not a dumper nor a dumpy.....
it sort of came naturally

 

[ZeroAccess]

I didn't read half of the crap just wondering why ya broke up with your g/f?

drinking..nothing wrong with that wooha
nah in all honesty sorry to hear about your g/f ...but hopefully she's hot and she'll get around to me and then ..wait i have a g/f ..damn
nevermind I gotta go back for more of the bottle..

in other words, I'm saying sorry and I hope everything will become well..it normally does

congrats on leaving school and what not and ya know s*** always works out in the end

 

[Striker187]

keep your head up.....things get better. they always do. and your close friends will definitely help you out. my best friend stuck by my side through my breakup and put things in perspective for me. i totally feel ya though....i actually had a nightmare last night concerning my ex....crazy.

on the flip side, all of a sudden, i have all this money to spend on my car.....

 

[MP3skaterNC]

it will get better.
time cures all.

and ******, mostly ****** to cure it.

nah seriously, you'll get over it and find someone better.