No, I do not like to fight.
But then I am not an english native speaker, so I eventually misunderstand you. Sorry for that!
Besides, what do you mean with your subscript "be a man and pay the hopital bills"? Do you mean a hospital?
At first I didn't like it (in my previous CX-5, a 2.2 diesel) and I switched this function off after starting the car.
But now the system is in use all the time; most of the time (due to the excellent noise damping of the CX-5 KF (a 2.5 L fuel engine) the restart is almost unnoticed and...
Then it is possible that your dealer, by accident, put your card into another vehicle (for a demo etc.) The card gets then locked to another VIN and cannot be used by your car anymore.
Anyway your dealer can replace your card under warranty.
I have it activated as well (being in the EU). I travel every year from Belgium to the south of France (a 1.000 km trip). Once the NAV destination entered, and I start the engine, the WiFi connects to my home-network and automatically downloads fuel-prices along the route, weather, and live...
In Germany, Mazda will come up with a "solution" for this problem in march.
Many complaints over there with regards to the same issue...... appears between 500 and 3000 km of driving the new car.