i think it's because you don't spend time choosing the gift that suits or fits them. It doesn't reflect what you or other people see in them. My girlfriend wants something personal most of the time, "from the heart" LoL whatever that means... hahaha jk
gift cards are cool but she says that...
im using the ultra white bulbs in mine, it's bright but has a bluish tint to em.. whatever you do don't get the Nokya purps, i couldn't see anything at night!