^^^ pretty much covered all I had to say about the subject.
well, maybe also you should check if it was properly tightened to spec (certain number of clicks, dont have a clue what it should be on the 3, check the manual)
havent heard anything from this guy or if they are still in business, but the website is still up
http://www.protege5online.com/For_Sale_Page/Emblems/emblems.html
not entirely sure. i know for sure on 2 seater cars it can be done. i would assume if you can prove you need it done b'c of 3 kids they may allow it as well.
just looking to pick one of these. looking for well working but used, with decently low miles (undet 40k) on the cheap. let me know, aftermarket or OEM fine.